My father passed away today. He had been sick the last few weeks and at least he is no longer suffering. He had a rich full life that he lived as he wanted. Dad was quiet and reserved. I do not remember him sitting me down very often to tell me what was important in life. Better than that, he taught me by his own actions. Family was first and foremost. Dad worked hard and long hours to provide for us. He and Mom also owned a store for several years. Each week he and I would get up very early to go get stuff for the store. When needed, he worked extra jobs. I had a wonderful childhood and never wanted for anything I needed. Family celebrations were important. I especially remember Thanksgiving when the extended family would gather for a tremendous feast the seemed to take all day to prepare. Even the last time I visited him this past November we had a great family supper. After that we played cards. It was a wonderful evening, probably the best one of the trip.
Dad knew the value of a good education. He and Mom gave up much so we could get one. While Dad did not have a college education he was very smart. It is funny, when I was a small child I thought he was the smartest person it the world. When I got to be a teenager, he got dumb as a box of rocks. When I got to be an adult he got smart again. I wonder if it was him or me? I will miss his advice and example. I wonder if he went to be with them?
I love you Dad and I will miss you. Do not worry about us. We will be fine. Rest well you earned it.
Your loving son.
